zaterdag, 11 mei
Hallo beste vrienden en familie. Het is nu zaterdagnamiddag en na een pauze van 14 dagen nog eens een bericht.
Zeker niet ongerust zijn want met oma en opa gaat alles goed. Druk, maar we zijn het niet anders gewend.
Met onze oogappel
gaat ook alles naar wens; alleen neemt hij iets te veel de nacht voor de dag
zodat mama en papa regelmatig met kleine oogjes rondlopen. Wij zien hem bijna
altijd wanneer hij lief aan het slapen is, dus voor ons is Hajo een mooie,
schattige droombaby.
Met mij gaat het steeds beter, heb al 400 Km op de fietsteller en de hartslag begint te dalen. Met de spijsvertering loopt het nog steeds regelmatig mis. Op 1 mei waren we uitgenodigd op een feestje van Raoul en Christiane en bibi moest om 16h00 naar huis. Francine heeft het wel een stuk langer getrokken. Mijn probleem is dus zeker nog niet opgelost en kan wellicht nog een hele tijd duren. Het is leefbaar maar zeer vervelend; er leren mee leven is de boodschap!
We zijn
verleden week ook nog eens tot in Brussel geraakt. Lieven gaf een drink om zijn
vertrek te vieren. Kregen zo de kans om met de collega’s een goede babbel te
maken. Een dringende drang om terug aan het werk te gaan is er echter nog niet.
Het schrijven van deze blog heeft ons enorm geholpen gedurende de maanden van onzekerheid; enerzijds dank zij het neerschrijven van onze gevoelens maar zeker en vast dank zij jullie veelvuldige reacties. We hopen dat we misschien ook enkele medepatiënten een steuntje hebben gegeven. De bedoeling van de blog is zeker niet om een dagboek bij te houden. Zoals de situatie nu is denken we dat het moment gekomen is om met de blog te stoppen, want fysisch gaat het beter en de nog bestaande problemen zullen wellicht nog een zekere tijd duren. Tot vandaag zijn er 6624 bezoekers, hiervan waren er 3888 individuele bezoekers. Het merendeel van de bezoekers komt natuurlijk uit België maar we hadden ook lezers uit Engeland, Amerika, Nederland en Frankrijk.
We sluiten
dus af met jullie allen het allerbeste toe te wensen en jullie nogmaals van
harte te danken voor alle steun.
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